I’m seeing more clients reaching a point where heightened turmoil has become overwhelming—where once the chaos was manageable, now it is not. There’s a saying: “The moment you feel like turning back or giving up is often right before a breakthrough.”

You have arrived at a moment of transformation. But don’t move forward in blind reaction. Instead, take quiet moments to check in with yourself. Ask: Is this worth it? Not for the story you tell yourself, but for the foundation beneath it—the part of you that is trying to root. Love, intuitive guidance, and an inner plan—perhaps barely a whisper beneath the noise—are trying to be heard.

Ask yourself: Why am I holding on? Don’t live in potential—live in the present. Everything changes, and often, the chaos we experience is a reflection of our inner safety mechanisms resisting that change. The wounds we have carried, the ones that have silently directed our choices, begin to cry out louder when old coping mechanisms no longer serve us. The ways we’ve pushed others away or managed inner chaos may no longer be effective.

This is why checking in with yourself is essential. The story is shifting, and you must decide: will you nurture your roots, replant them, or let them go entirely? Transformation requires us to step out of our own way.

With love,

Susan